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Yes, we are talking about French Kissing. Kissing tips and advice for
all ages, young and old. If you would like to learn more about the passion of
French kissing, just read on.
Kissing is a form of expressing
passion. For many, some helpful tips can make the kissing experience a lot
more meaningful. If you want to know about kissing and the art of French kissing
this article is filled with tips. A kiss can be a simple welcome
kiss or filled with passion and desire. There are several things that compel you
to kiss someone. Perhaps you are on a first date and you have reached the
point of whether or not you want to express that you enjoy their company by a
kiss. Perhaps you just want to say "I love you" with a quick kiss or a passion
filled French kiss. When you decide to kiss, then the first kiss could make a
difference in the way your relationship endures or ends. Will it be just a peck
or a full on French kiss? THE FIRST FRENCH KISS
SHOULD BE SOMETHING TO REMEMBER! This article
provides you with just the right advice and great tips on kissing.
Just about everyone remembers their first French kiss. It
either was a great experience or more like a war of tongues. With each kiss and
each person you dated, you learned what you liked and what you didn’t like.
Kissing is a very personal expression to some and others brush it off as just
part of the date. Those are the ones who lost the art of kissing. Kissing is the
language of love. The French kiss should be a sensual and passionate experience
worth remembering. A kiss is a way of sharing your affection with the person you
are dating or your loved one. Just because you are married, doesn’t mean that the
art of a good French kiss should fade away. In fact, it is probably even more
important that you should keep the art of kissing alive!!!! Passionate French
kissing does just that.
FRENCH KISSING IS NOT A WAR OF THE TONGUES
The skill of French kissing does not simply consist of
knowing how to maneuver your tongue inside one’s mouth. It is not just the
physical act of the tongue, but it is the art of kissing with your entire mouth
along with the help of other parts of your body. The kiss encompasses the use of
the lips, tongue, teeth, while your hands play a supportive role. The
first kiss is very important. It tells a lot about you and your style.
Kissing during the dating process is a very important part of any relationship
and later on the most important part of lovemaking all together. The French kiss
emphasizes a more sensual version of the kiss since the lips can be an erogenous
zone for many. Thus, it is very important to
know the art of kissing in order to leave a lasting, sensual impression. For
some women, a French kiss expresses more than just a friendly feeling and it is
more inviting to move on to a more personal level. This could be the same with
men as well, but studies have indicated that women tend to use the kiss as more
of an emotional tool as an expression of love. But just because you French kiss,
it does not mean you are going to have sex with that person but it certainly can
heat up and build a sensual desire between you.
When that first kiss is imminent, make it an easy approach.
Gently cup your hands to each other’s face and pull each other close until you
barely touch. Feel the warmth of your lips starting to press together. When your
lips meet slowly slip your tongue inside each other’s mouth. Swirl your tongues
together much like you are savoring your favorite ice cream cone. If you aren’t
an ice cream lover then imagine creamy chocolate or something else that savors
your taste buds. Perhaps a fine wine. Move your tongues in sync. This culminates
to the French kiss. Of course, at that point, the kiss may turn lustful or it
can be just an enduring kiss showing that special emotion that makes your
partner feel special.
How a person kisses is probably how the
person likes to be kissed unless the person is new at it. So pay close attention
to the way your partner kisses you back -- it is probably a good indication that
your partner wants you to kiss that way. This doesn’t mean your partner always
wants to be kissed that way but if your dating relationship is new it is
probably the best way to respond.
Does your partner suck on your tongue? Or run their tongue
over your teeth then onto your lips? Does your partner like wet kisses? Don’t be
offended if your partner does not like saliva. Just make your kiss less moist.
But some partners really like it wet and slippery. Just remember each person is
different. What is right for one is not necessarily right for another. Use the
first kiss as your discovery tool. When you become more comfortable then go for
the exploratory kiss. You might just unleash a new found passion and art for
kissing.
Another important part of kissing is to relax and enjoy it.
Don’t try to analyze or become too engaged in thinking about what you should or
shouldn’t be doing. Just enjoy the kiss. The more you relax the less mechanical
it will be. You make the kiss.
Take Control of Your Partner’s Mouth
After a few kisses in a row, hold your partner’s face with
your hands and kiss the way you'd like to be kissed. Yes, you are taking control
of the kiss, but the response that you receive may bring such an exhilarating
feeling that both of you succumb to the passion that you created. Use your
tongues in a sensual way of the French kiss.
Play a little game to learn what your kissing partner likes
about kissing. As you know, kissing gets you very excited and warm all over.
Take turns! Suggest to your partner to follow the way you kiss. Then switch! Follow the way your partner likes to kiss. Before you know it, you both will
have compromised to find your own special way of kissing. Your kissing will work
magic.
Now its time to MAKE YOUR KISS LAST LONG!!!
It is now time to show your date that you really have
passion for him or her. Most of the time the man takes the lead but there is no
rule that a woman can’t. Kissing should be a mutual experience. Look into the
persons eyes and say something that is sweet and true. Then slowly move your
mouth to your partner. Slowly open your lips like you want this moment to last
forever. Remember there is almost nothing in this world that can take the place
of a long, slow, tongue swirling, enticing French kiss. Feel the passion moving
through you during one of those prolonged sensual kissing moments. Make your
kiss the ultimate passionate one using some serious tongue action. This kiss is
one of passion not just friendship. OKAY, now that you just experienced a brief
introduction into the art of FRENCH KISSING let’s review some of the basics. So
you now know that kissing is not only romantic but a necessary part of any great
relationship.
TWO DIFFERENT WAYS TO KISS
There are so many different variations of kissing but in
reality there are two main basic ones, closed-mouth kissing and French kissing
(opened mouth). French kissing involves an open mouth and the use of your
tongue, while close-mouthed kissing is pretty self-explanatory. A "hi" kiss is
usually done with a closed mouth. French kissing is always done with an open
mouth which clearly says that you want to be more personal. You wouldn’t want to
French kiss a friend, family or relative.
HINTS FOR A SUCCESSFUL KISS
Great Breath and Teeth
Well this may be controversial for some, but the way that it
should be looked at is how the person takes care of themselves. There is no
reason not to have teeth that look clean and are in healthy condition. Your
teeth represents you first especially when you smile. We’re not talking just
about super white, veneers that are perfect, . just reasonably clean and healthy
teeth. This is essential when dating or for any relationship for that matter.
What do you think when you see missing or rotten teeth? It’s a "turn off"
indicator and certainly isn’t inviting.
Brushing your teeth is just as important before you go out on
your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath or has
food in between their teeth. Also avoid eating food that gives off orders.
Remember you are on a date. Well, let’s face it, even if you have been married
to the person for a long duration, show each other the same respect that you had
when you first dated. You might be surprised what might spark!!
So if your date consists of having something to eat, a trip
to the rest room before you leave is very important to make sure you don’t have
food stuck between your teeth and perhaps a quick rinse. Perhaps a mint to
refresh. Make your mouth inviting ~ smile with confidence. Don't chew gum just
before you kiss. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss
unless it is the other persons tongue!!
MOIST LIPS
Dry, cracked lips? They are certainly rough on your kissing
partner! You want your lips to be slightly moist. Men - use Chapstick. Women - use a cream lipstick with a
touch of light gloss. Make those lips look kissable! Don’t overdo the gloss
though. It makes a kiss too gooey and smeary. The same goes for too much
lipstick unless you want your man to wear it too. Run your tongue slowly over
your lips once before you kiss. For women it is very easy to do this in a
sensual way. You want your kiss to be a mind blowing memorable experience
inviting that person to kiss you more. Remember, kissing is just not solely for
those dating. It tells that special someone that they are special to you no
matter what kind of relationship you are in. Don’t let a faded marriage die,
give it a wake-up call and get kissing again!
Body Position
Yes, the position of your body is important. Closeness is the
key. Don’t stand too far apart since it will be more difficult to invite that
person into your kissing range. If you want to be kissed, stand close to your
partner. Move in close. This should be an overt sign that you want to be kissed
or that you are initiating a kiss. As the two of you move closer together, tilt
your head to one side. You both will go the same side of your own body. It
becomes very natural. Just go with the flow.
Closed eyes?
YES. First, by closing your eyes you are now using other body
sensors. When your eyes are closed, you will find there are less distractions.
If your eyes are open you might see others watching you and you may be even
watching others. You would not be giving your full attention to the special
moment. Plus, if your partner sees you looking elsewhere, the trust that you
want to build certainly goes quickly "out-the-door" and could even end your
date. So be sure to give your partner your full attention. Closing your yours is
a trustful part of kissing. Be attentive to your partners feelings and let the
kiss flow.
When to Close Your Eyes.
Slowly close your eye lids just before both your lips touch
each others. Now there is an exception to this rule. If the kiss is a "closed
mouth" kiss then you can leave your eyes open during the kiss. Why? Because it
indicates a friendly kiss. But if you want to move toward a more passionate open
mouth kissed, then it is best to close your eyes. Another exception to the rule
is if your kissing is part of making love or engaging is very sensual sex.
Kissing with your eyes open and looking into one another's eyes can be very
erotic. This, of course is subjective and you will quickly learn what your
partner enjoys. Kissing a person then looking the person straight into their
open eyes, then telling that person that you love them certainly emphasizes the
meaning of that kiss.
Open Lips vs Closed Lips
Closed lip kissing is great for when you just meet someone
you are going to date, or your close friends and relatives. Instead of opening
your mouth, keep them closed. These kinds of kisses aren’t usually directly on
the mouth but they can be. This is also a good way of letting your partner know
this is as far as it goes. It also makes a friendly hello/good-bye kiss after a
date if your not ready to bring the relationship up to the next level. Remember,
open lips are more inviting and a less formal way of kissing. This is where the
passion and expression of love comes into play.
The "Handy" work of a Kiss
Your hands can add substantially to effect of the kiss.
Placement of your hands when kissing helps to express the kind of kiss that you
are going to give. The use of your hands help direct your partner as to what
kind of kiss that will be given. When dating, one of the most most popular ways
is to put one hand around your partner's waist and the other in the middle of
their back. You are not holding your partner from getting away but just close
enough to show that you want to be as close as possible to that person during a
kiss. Your hands and arms can express a hug while pulling closer for the kiss.
You can also use your hands to gently cup your partner's face..........very
romantic and tender!!!! Well, of course there are other places where you may use
your hands, however, they would be interpreted as more sexual in nature which
could invade your partner’s space if they are not ready. But if they are, then
yes, your hands can become quite explicit which could turn that embracing kiss
into a sexual encounter in no time. Wherever the hands end up should be at the
discretion of your partner. Be sure to be attentive to a "no" or "yes". Placing
your hands is just as important as the kiss itself.
YOUR FINGERS
Just as your hands enhance your kiss, so do your fingers. Use
them to gently rub other parts of partner’s body. At first, only exposed parts
such as arms, hands, face, neck, etc. Running your fingers through your
partner’s hair can turn a good kiss into a sensual one. Softly placing your
fingers on your partner’s face as you kiss can calm a lot of nerves. The use of
your fingers during a kiss can trigger many responses.
THE TONGUE.
Now we are past the lips and getting really into the French
kiss. Your lips have already touched your partners. Your tongue slowly leaves
your mouth to entering the waiting mouth of your partner. Yes, the mouth is a
place for great pleasures. Not only for the sense of taste, but for feeling the
pleasure of another tongue. Sharing tongues is more than just a friendly kiss.
It is a way to show strong emotional and physical feelings. Your mouth and
tongue are erogenous zones.
So go ahead and open your mouth enough and slowly move your
tongue in and out, then swirl it. Some call this the beginning of the "tongue
dance". When this dance happens, you become engrossed with each other. Enjoy and
let your body experience this pleasurable event. Now let your partner explore
the inside of your mouth and you do the same thing back. The worse thing you can
do is nothing. If you do not like the kiss, then tell your partner what you do
or do not like about it. There is nothing worse than kissing an emotionless
person. Plus it does not foster good feelings towards your relationship. It is
one thing not being in the mood, but to stay motionless, is a disfavor to your
partner. End it or get into it!!!
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